Before I even start this, I want to state for the record: I have no issues with skinny girls, fit girls, tall girls, any girls that differ from me. I’m all about body positivity actually. Love who you are and all that shit. Which brings me to my point. If you love who you are and are true to yourself why do you bend to society and become a shallow face fuck.
Let me explain myself.
I have been continually over looked by men because I am a bbw. But, I am overlooked only when it comes to long term relationships and the big commitments. Definitely not overlooked when it comes to sex and having fun. Well shit, bbw’s do it right don’t they. In my life I have come across many men that love a bbw. They go on and on about how they love the curves, love the softness, love the look, the chunky thighs, the big asses, the round bellies, all that stuff. How they are not attracted to skinny woman. How they could never fuck a skinny woman. Then low and behold…. I get dropped for the Trophy wife. You know, the skinny beautiful woman that looks good in anything she wears and is pretty to look at and makes all your mates envious cos she’s ‘hot’.
So what I am finding is that a lot of men are closet bbw lovers. Bbw’s are good enough to fuck. Good enough to play around with, but not really socially acceptable to marry, or be in a committed relationship with.
I can tell what you are thinking…. You are thinking that there is probably something wrong with me and that’s why I’m still single and 35. That’s what you are thinking right? I actually don’t blame you for thinking like that. I probably would too. But trust me, I’m pretty normal. Whatever normal is.
So why do men in this day and age, where it is ok to be yourself and do what ever you want, still find the need to have the trophy wife or girlfriend on their arm? Someone for everyone else to think is hot and fuckable? Why don’t you, be with the person you’re really attracted too?
Case in point, I love a black man. Love everything about them. I don’t hide this. I don’t pretend to like white blokes to fit in, make other people comfortable or be socially acceptable. I like what I like and I couldn’t give a fuck what anyone else thinks. Ohhh interracial is so taboo… Ahh fuck off and get educated.
I guess I am just frustrated by always getting past over for women that are no better than me. No prettier, no smarter, no funnier…. just skinnier. I’d be fine with it if I knew the bloke wasn’t a closet bbw lover. Be free. Love who you love. Don’t be ashamed by any of it.