This is a bit off topic than what I normally blog about, but it has been bothering me so I need to vent it out.
I had to go to the Doctor the other day. I don’t want to go into any gross detail, but I was in a lot of pain in an awkward area. My regular Doctor wasn’t available so I went to another one in the centre from a recommendation from my brother. The Doctor was perfectly pleasant and easy to talk to, which was great. What wasn’t great though, was that he completely did nothing about my current problem and all he talked to me about was my weight.
The words went like this: “You definitely have Diabetes” “You’ll most likely get off an aeroplane one day and have a massive clot and die” “My wife was your size. She died at 32” “I’m giving you the shake up that you need”
Ok, I get that the Doctor needs to warn his patients of the health risks of obesity. I get it. But how about treating what the patient has come in for first, and then as a secondary message, getting some background on your patient before you go hell for leather on them. I left the appointment with no understanding of what was wrong with me, how to treat the wound or the pain, how long the symptoms would last for and the further outcome. I had to go to see a Chemist to get that information. Get the right bandages, pro-biotics etc. All the Doctor saw was fat. I wasn’t a person. I didn’t have any other issues but fatness. Everything wrong with me is because of fatness. My test results came back clear. I don’t have Diabetes. What am I concerned about now, is because of his one eyed approach, maybe he has missed something else. The reason behind this issue. The reason I went to the Doctor in the first place. Missed it. And because of that, it is re-occuring.
The thing that also pissed me off, he didn’t ask me any questions. It was the first time he had met me and he didn’t ask me anything. Family history, exercise regime, food habits. Just assumed I am a lazy ass fat woman that doesn’t exercise or eat vegetables.
I know he came from a good place, he just completely executed his words wrong. Problem is, because of that, it will make me less inclined to go back to the Doctor when I need to. I wonder how often this happens? And then the medical profession probably wonder why people leave things un-diagnosed and untreated.
People need to change their attitude. No matter if you are fat, skinny, black, white, tall, short, ugly etc we all need to be treated the same. Not with kid gloves, but with respect.
Ok rant over. I’m off to eat a carrot stick and go to the gym.